When I started my coaching business and this blog I did realize that the term soul mate might be troubling for some people as it can have so many different connotations – some good and some bad. The entertainment industry paints a Romeo and Juliet-esque view of soul mates as being something like eyes locking across a room, there’s a spark and wham, that’s it! There’s the person you’re stuck with until the movie ends or you both die by poisoning. (That’s not being deliberate about attracting your soul mate, by the way.)
Others don’t believe that there’s one soul mate for each person, but rather that we have many soul mates in different types of relationships that come into our lives to help our souls grow in some way. So the challenge there is how to know who the ONE is when there are so many potential soul mates.
Or the opposite end of the spectrum is that there aren’t soul mates at all. Or just believing it’s impossible that there’s one perfect partner out there for us and that we could manage to meet him or her in this lifetime on a planet with over 7 billion souls.
I’m not saying any of those perspectives are invalid nor am I here to tell you what is true, because you decide what’s true – what you believe to be true will be what’s true for you. But as a woman who is a deliberate creator and became intentional about attracting my soul mate into my life – I can tell you that not only is attracting your soul mate possible but it is your birth right to have the love you truly desire and that reflects the loving soul you are.
In my program the soul mate I refer to is specifically a romantic partnership that supports your highest self and your deepest desires for spiritual growth and expansion in this lifetime. It’s a partnership based on deep commitment, equality, interdependence, honesty, truthfulness, spiritual oneness, and unconditional love. Soul mates are by no means perfect people, but are growing together. Your soul mate is the person your heart, when unblocked by limiting beliefs and negative patterns, truly desires to be with. A soul mate relationship adds to your life force (chi or prana), giving you more energy to be, do and have what you came here for.
You see, it actually becomes very easy to attract your soul mate when you are expressing your true self in love and living from that highest place your heart – and I’m proof! (In a future post I’ll tell you the story about how I met my husband, no doubt we were divinely guided.)
My program and coaching is all about guiding you into alignment with your highest and best self and knowing love from that place. When you reside in that higher vibration of love your partner, the right partner for you, will be drawn to you. Just like Rumi said, “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
For a free 30-minute clarity session to start your deliberate attraction process, email me at dinarobisoncoaching at gmail dot com. Clarity alone can do wonders!
What do you think about the whole soul mate thing?
Wishing you lots of joy in your journey while deliberate creating the life of your dreams!