Monthly Archives: April 2018

Do Men Love Smart and Successful Women?

Why do many smart and successful women struggle with love?

Over and over again I see many brilliant and powerful women struggle when it comes to dating and finding a soulmate partner.

Whether it’s with my clients, women in my community, women I know in real life, or even with women in the public eye; I tend to see the same relationship patterns play out that lead them away from the genuine love they so desire.

Here’s the deal though, having love isn’t a trade-off. A real partner will support (and love) a brilliant and successful woman. So I had to get to the bottom of this issue.

Do men love smart and successful women? If so, then why do these women often fail to find lasting, soulmate love?

In my latest blog post, I talk about the shocking results of a study, what a few men have told me, the one trait that strong and successful women have that I believe works against attracting soulmate love, and what they can do about it.

Check it out here!

9 Ways TV and Movies Are Messing Up Your Love Life

Harmful Love and Relationship Myths Thanks To Entertainment

It’ s no secret that I believe the way entertainment portrays love and relationships is an enormous contributor to the limiting beliefs that make it challenging to find a soulmate.

Yes, I’m sure most people do consciously know they are watching fiction and that it isn’t “reality.” But what most don’t realize is that without a positive model of soulmate love growing up, what their mind absorbs becomes their reality of love.

And a compelling story combined with beautiful actors, a heart-stirring score, and stunning special effects has the power to profoundly affect our emotions and feelings about love. Additionally, with an ever-increasing trend towards violence and disturbing themes in entertainment, it’s more important than ever to be aware of these messages.

Every once in a while I bring this topic back to the forefront as I did in my latest blog post: Nine Harmful Love and Relationship Myths Courtesy of Popular Entertainment.

Check it out here to read the top myths the entertainment industry perpetuates that could be messing up your love life. Do you recognize any, or all, of them?

Men Won’t Approach Women and You Will Be Surprised Why Not

Women Are Wondering Why Men Aren’t Approaching Them


Most women I talk to want their dream man to take the initiative and approach them.

Perhaps it’s a fantasy, but all the time I hear from my clients that they dream their soulmate will come up to them at the coffee shop, library, or grocery store. And everything will just progress naturally from there.

It could be due to how social media has changed human interaction, or it could be that online dating has made it possible for men to date without ever approaching a woman again.

Whatever it was, I had to get to the bottom of it. So I did some Googling and was shocked at what I find out.

I share the top reasons men said why they didn’t approach women and what you can do about it right here.

Curious About Becoming a Law of Attraction Coach?

“Could I really be a coach?”

I started feeling the call to become a coach almost 10 years ago after having some very impactful coaching workshops in NYC. What struck me was how powerful coaching is. Not just for achieving goals, but for aligning with a deeper purpose and cultivating inner happiness.

Though I had no idea what I wanted to coach on – I was still struggling with relationships at that time – I just knew I had to delve into it further.

Fast forward to 2012. I was ready to get serious about taking a coach training program, so I spent days scouring the web looking at all the trainings that are out there now. It was overwhelming to say the least.

Then I found the one. My “soulmate” of coach training programs, so to speak.

When I learned about Christy Whitman and the training she offered at the Quantum Success Coaching Academy, I knew it was the right one for me. I signed up and never looked back.

And it was amazing. The best part is I have lifetime access to all of the materials so I’m still, to this day, using the business trainings and resources and growing as a coach.

The QSCA is opening for the Spring session again soon and I wanted you to have the first chance to find out more. For a limited time Christy is offering a free e-book and a webinar so you can learn more.

In it, you’ll learn:

  • What situations typically spur clients to hire coaches
  • What coaches do with their clients – and best practices to use
  • The client’s role … and what your relationship will be to achieve maximum impact
  • What coaches have in common with cell phones … and why this is good news for the profession
  • The two big societal trends that explain why Forbes named coaching as one of the fastest growing career paths
  • 9 traits that most successful coaches have in common
  • And much more

You’ll get instant access to the e-book along with details to join the live training hosted by my coach trainer and two-time New York Times Bestselling Author, Christy Whitman.

Whether you’re brand-new to the idea of coaching … or you’ve researched the idea but just haven’t made the leap yet …

Whether you’re working as a part-time coach, but haven’t grown your business enough to quit your job …

Or even if you’re a full-time coach and are seeking ways to take your business to the next level …

This training will be inspiring!

Register here.


P.S. The e-book titled Everything You Need to Know to Become a Certified Law of Attraction Coach is loaded with valuable insights and tips for jumping on this opportunity. If you have any questions about the QSCA don’t hesitate to hit reply and ask me!

Conquer These and Avoid the Narcissist For Good

Tweak Your Dating Habits To Avoid Falling For a Narcissist

Without a doubt, the single largest common factor amongst my clients and community members now ready to attract their soulmate is that they have experience dating a narcissist in the past. Narcissism in relationships is hardly new but, now with a name, so much awareness has been brought to light about how to spot one, how to get over one, and how to never date one again.

Learning to date deliberately will help you identify a narcissist early on and avoid becoming bonded with him, so you can stay open and be available for genuine love instead.

The following 4 tips will safeguard you against narcissists while you’re dating.

Please continue reading here…