Author Archives: Dina Robison

About Dina Robison

Dina Robison is a Deliberate Soulmate Attraction Coach, Certified Law of Attraction Coach, Certified Yoga and Meditation instructor, successfully coaching women to attract their soulmates since 2012.

How Do You Know If You’re Settling In Love?

“I Refuse To Settle In a Relationship.”

That’s a phrase I repeatedly hear from clients, women I know, and even myself once upon a time.

Of course, no one wants to settle in order to be in a relationship. But the more appropriate question to ask is: How do you know if you are settling?

What seems to happen is that when people think they aren’t settling in their relationship, they actually are.

Sure, they may have had fireworks, chemistry, and attraction in the beginning only to discover that over time they are subtly — and not so subtly — mistreated by their partner. And actually ended up settling for less just to maintain a fraction of the excitement that was present in the beginning.

In my latest blog post, 10 Signs You’re Settling In Your Relationship, I list the casual ways that many settle for less in their relationships while telling themselves they aren’t.

Are you settling for less in love?

Read all about the 10 signs at here.



Can You Spot a Player When You’re Looking For Love?

Would You Know a Player If He Was Playing You?

All the time I get asked, “But Dina, how can I know if he’s just a player?”

Did you know that there’s an entire coaching industry out there that teaches ordinary men how to play “the game?”

Years ago I met a man who was learning this game, and he told me all about it. In a nutshell, it’s based on the idea that women can quickly fall for a man if he creates chemistry with her.

And there are a few learnable tricks that men (to be fair, perhaps not only men) use to artificially create feelings of chemistry in women BEFORE she’s had a chance to get to know him.

In other words, she’s falling for him without even knowing whether or not he’s a good person or a good match for her long-term.

And players aren’t always Hollywood handsome or professional athlete hot. Sometimes they look like computer geeks, and that’s their “in.”

So learn not to fall for it and send the players on their merry way so you can be available for real love instead.

In my latest blog post 10 Surefire Ways To Spot Players, I list 10 traits of the player that you will be able to spot immediately (most of them anyway) and what you can do as a deliberate dater to not waste another moment with one again.

Find out how to spot the players right here.

Does the Law of Attraction Work To Attract Love or Not?

Law of attraction coaches get a bad rap.

I TOTALLY get it. The law of attraction is a philosophy and methodology that is metaphysical and can’t be proven scientifically. It’s not seen, heard, tasted, felt. (Or is it?)

It’s a bit like asking people, “Just trust me, it works.” That’s a tall order and I would never expect anyone to buy into something that doesn’t resonate with them.

It sounds like the law of attraction is supposed to work like magic and just immediately bring you the love, wealth, success, fame, bliss, or whatever else you desire.

But it’s not that at all. As a matter of fact, there’s nothing magical about it at all. It’s actually probably something you’ve already been doing successfully in many areas of your life.


And I clear up exactly what it is and isn’t in my latest post at the Deliberately Attract Your Soulmate blog.

In this post I lay out:

  • What the law of attraction is.
  • How it relates to everyday life and our world.
  • Why experiencing ALL emotions (even the bad ones) are very helpful.
  • The one key to making the law of attraction work for you. (And it’s not magic.)
  • And what you must do now if you want to attract soulmate love to you.

Read The Law of Attraction Isn’t Magic For Love here.



Do Men Love Smart and Successful Women?

Why do many smart and successful women struggle with love?

Over and over again I see many brilliant and powerful women struggle when it comes to dating and finding a soulmate partner.

Whether it’s with my clients, women in my community, women I know in real life, or even with women in the public eye; I tend to see the same relationship patterns play out that lead them away from the genuine love they so desire.

Here’s the deal though, having love isn’t a trade-off. A real partner will support (and love) a brilliant and successful woman. So I had to get to the bottom of this issue.

Do men love smart and successful women? If so, then why do these women often fail to find lasting, soulmate love?

In my latest blog post, I talk about the shocking results of a study, what a few men have told me, the one trait that strong and successful women have that I believe works against attracting soulmate love, and what they can do about it.

Check it out here!

9 Ways TV and Movies Are Messing Up Your Love Life

Harmful Love and Relationship Myths Thanks To Entertainment

It’ s no secret that I believe the way entertainment portrays love and relationships is an enormous contributor to the limiting beliefs that make it challenging to find a soulmate.

Yes, I’m sure most people do consciously know they are watching fiction and that it isn’t “reality.” But what most don’t realize is that without a positive model of soulmate love growing up, what their mind absorbs becomes their reality of love.

And a compelling story combined with beautiful actors, a heart-stirring score, and stunning special effects has the power to profoundly affect our emotions and feelings about love. Additionally, with an ever-increasing trend towards violence and disturbing themes in entertainment, it’s more important than ever to be aware of these messages.

Every once in a while I bring this topic back to the forefront as I did in my latest blog post: Nine Harmful Love and Relationship Myths Courtesy of Popular Entertainment.

Check it out here to read the top myths the entertainment industry perpetuates that could be messing up your love life. Do you recognize any, or all, of them?

Men Won’t Approach Women and You Will Be Surprised Why Not

Women Are Wondering Why Men Aren’t Approaching Them


Most women I talk to want their dream man to take the initiative and approach them.

Perhaps it’s a fantasy, but all the time I hear from my clients that they dream their soulmate will come up to them at the coffee shop, library, or grocery store. And everything will just progress naturally from there.

It could be due to how social media has changed human interaction, or it could be that online dating has made it possible for men to date without ever approaching a woman again.

Whatever it was, I had to get to the bottom of it. So I did some Googling and was shocked at what I find out.

I share the top reasons men said why they didn’t approach women and what you can do about it right here.

Curious About Becoming a Law of Attraction Coach?

“Could I really be a coach?”

I started feeling the call to become a coach almost 10 years ago after having some very impactful coaching workshops in NYC. What struck me was how powerful coaching is. Not just for achieving goals, but for aligning with a deeper purpose and cultivating inner happiness.

Though I had no idea what I wanted to coach on – I was still struggling with relationships at that time – I just knew I had to delve into it further.

Fast forward to 2012. I was ready to get serious about taking a coach training program, so I spent days scouring the web looking at all the trainings that are out there now. It was overwhelming to say the least.

Then I found the one. My “soulmate” of coach training programs, so to speak.

When I learned about Christy Whitman and the training she offered at the Quantum Success Coaching Academy, I knew it was the right one for me. I signed up and never looked back.

And it was amazing. The best part is I have lifetime access to all of the materials so I’m still, to this day, using the business trainings and resources and growing as a coach.

The QSCA is opening for the Spring session again soon and I wanted you to have the first chance to find out more. For a limited time Christy is offering a free e-book and a webinar so you can learn more.

In it, you’ll learn:

  • What situations typically spur clients to hire coaches
  • What coaches do with their clients – and best practices to use
  • The client’s role … and what your relationship will be to achieve maximum impact
  • What coaches have in common with cell phones … and why this is good news for the profession
  • The two big societal trends that explain why Forbes named coaching as one of the fastest growing career paths
  • 9 traits that most successful coaches have in common
  • And much more

You’ll get instant access to the e-book along with details to join the live training hosted by my coach trainer and two-time New York Times Bestselling Author, Christy Whitman.

Whether you’re brand-new to the idea of coaching … or you’ve researched the idea but just haven’t made the leap yet …

Whether you’re working as a part-time coach, but haven’t grown your business enough to quit your job …

Or even if you’re a full-time coach and are seeking ways to take your business to the next level …

This training will be inspiring!

Register here.


P.S. The e-book titled Everything You Need to Know to Become a Certified Law of Attraction Coach is loaded with valuable insights and tips for jumping on this opportunity. If you have any questions about the QSCA don’t hesitate to hit reply and ask me!