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How Soon is Too Soon To Sleep Together When Dating?

She was an amazing woman and still felt obligated to sleep with men by the third date.

She was a client of mine earlier this year — gorgeous, intelligent, kind, with a prosperous and fulfilling career.  Yet she still didn’t think she had the option to wait to sleep with a guy until she was sure about him.

This broke my heart. It also breaks my heart because I know she’s far from the only one. And I remember my younger self buying into that as well.

So first let me just say this: you can sleep with a guy for the first time whenever you damn well please – be it the first date or on your honeymoon.

When he’s your soulmate, he will want it to be right for you.

So I felt inspired to tackle this topic and did some digging (ahem, Googling). I found out there’s been quite of bit of authoritative research about the optimal time to first hit the sack when dating for a serious relationship or marriage. 

In my latest blog post, When is the Right Time to Have Sex?, I share my client’s story and several pieces of scientific evidence that do say, yes, there is an ideal time for sleeping with someone you’re dating if seeking a lasting relationship. 

The results are fascinating, so check it out here.

Oh, and I know some of you are saying, “But my cousin slept with her husband on the first date and they’ve been happily married for 34 years!”

There are always exceptions to just about anything. But exceptions aren’t the rule or even the ideal. Check out what the research says about it here.

Happy holidays! May this season bring you many blessings and joy!

Check Out This Inspiring Series

I’m happy to announce that I’m part of an exciting series of interviews with inspiring women (such an honor!) that launches tomorrow, alongside amazing women like Arielle Ford and Judy Blume…

The interview series is called The Mum Manifestation Revolution!

We are all here to inspire you to tap into your unique gift, find work you love and live a life full of joy, without waiting for the right time but doing so now!

 

I have a complimentary ticket for you to attend, you can register using this

http://bit.ly/mummanifestationwithdina

Just so you know, you will be able to watch from your home, office or on the go.

 

This is for women who want to reach money, time and emotional freedom, and live a life with purpose – but are challenged with the priorities that come from being a career-driven women, along with the calling, responsibility, and desire to be a great mum!!

 

Register here with a complimentary ticket to listen in to an interview series you can’t afford to miss 😉

http://bit.ly/mummanifestationwithdina

 

Here is what is going to be covered in the video interviews-

 

– Tips how to tap into your unique gift

– How to take action and start doing work you love

– What to do when you’re feeling low, how to step back into feeling nourished and fulfilled

– True struggles that mum entrepreneurs are experiencing and how to overcome them

– What to do when you’re feeling guilty of not doing enough or being enough

– Live powerful meditation and visualization techniques

– Tips from doctors that will leave you feeling healthy and in flow with your body

– Strategies to take action on your business ideas today

– How as a mum you can take your knowledge, pay it forward, and show your kids how they can do the same!

 

These interviews are REAL, short, honest, direct conversations with mums who are living a life with passion, purpose and focus (because we know how busy you are)!

Register here with a complimentary ticket to listen in

http://bit.ly/mummanifestationwithdina

I hope you will join me there!

Online Dating Without Going Crazy

Dating Online Is Still an Amazing Way To Meet People

That being said, it can drive you crazy if you aren’t deliberate about it.

Over 7 years ago I met my husband online about 6 weeks after I signed up on the dating site.

Was I just lucky? Maybe.

But I also was very deliberate by following a few simple tips and cut through the riff-raff to get straight to the one.

In my blog post, Dating Online To Find Love Without Losing Your Mind, I highlight the exact steps and my mindset when I met my husband online.

Read all about them here.

The Epiphany That Flipped Me From Bad Boys To Good Men

Not only did I like the bad boys…

If he was emotionally unavailable and at least somewhat cute…I was attracted to him.

But why? I was baffled at how I could fall for one after the other.

Flash forward to late 2010 when I was going through a soulmate attraction course in a book…

At some point during an exercise, it dawned on me (much like an anvil falling on my head) that the part of me that lack self-worth thrived on the devoted, NEEDY, attention this type of man showered on me in the first few months.

You see…they needed me (or my car) more than I needed them.

And because I had a gaping hole in my own foundation, I found security in this co-dependence.

After that revelation I was able to:

1) Complete myself.
2) Let go of the anchor of security and be motivated by love instead.
3) Be repelled by these men while being attracted to GOOD MEN.

Would that have dawned on me with my own journal writing? Maybe.

But I got there a lot faster because I was going through a course in a book that prompted my subconscious to bring that forth.

And I address this exact epiphany in module 4 about Healing Wounds of my Deliberately Attract Your Soulmate course, and guide you through an exercise that will help you do the same.

Today is the last day; all courses are still on sale for only $9.99!

All courses come with lifetime access so you can complete it at your own pace (even if it’s no longer offered for sale, you still have access), and a 30-day money-back guarantee! Plus downloadable meditations and online support from me, too.

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“Dina’s course is focused, enjoyable to walk through and really helps someone who wants to know how to apply clarity and direction to focusing their dating life know how to do it! To learn from past relationship mistakes and move on. Changing mindsets in any area of life is HUGE and Dina helps you take it step by step.” – Holli

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May Special On Soulmate Attraction and Dating Courses

Deliberately Attract Your Soulmate and Dating Courses May Sale

“I am really loving your program, visualizations – especially the future vision of seeing your partner.. It is really one of my favorite programs that I have done!” Tali, course student 

For the month of May, get any of my soulmate attraction, dating, or confidence courses for just $9.99!

Each course comes with lifetime access, ongoing online support from me, and a 30-day money-back guarantee. 

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Is Now a Stranger Time Than Ever To Date?

Finding Love In a Modern World

With so much of our attention on social media and much less connection in real life, how does one go about dating to find love nowadays?

Being Deliberate About Dating

Technology can easily send our brains in too many directions, so now more than ever it’s crucial to be very deliberate about anything that you want in your life. And dating to find love is no different.

In my latest blog post, How To Find Love In Modern Times, I share the four most essential tips for dating and seeking love in our modern times. In this article I cover:

  • The first and most important step to take before you date (or do anything!)
  • The dating tool that’s one of the best ways to meet people now.
  • What you should be doing while you’re still waiting to meet the one — and even after you do.
  • And, though I’m not a big fan of The Rules — I think this one is more crucial than EVER before. No, you might not like it, but I’m sticking by it.

Read the full article at dinarobison.com here.

May Special On Soulmate Attraction and Dating Courses

Deliberately Attract Your Soulmate and Dating Courses May Sale

For the month of May, get any of my soulmate attraction, dating, or confidence courses for just $9.99!

Each course comes with lifetime access, ongoing online support from me, and a 30-day money-back guarantee. 

Preview the first two lessons in each course for free and redeem coupons here:

Deliberately Attract Your Soulmate

Dating Deliberately To Attract Love

Confidence For Women: Inner Radiance For Living Your Purpose

 

How Do You Know If You’re Settling In Love?

“I Refuse To Settle In a Relationship.”

That’s a phrase I repeatedly hear from clients, women I know, and even myself once upon a time.

Of course, no one wants to settle in order to be in a relationship. But the more appropriate question to ask is: How do you know if you are settling?

What seems to happen is that when people think they aren’t settling in their relationship, they actually are.

Sure, they may have had fireworks, chemistry, and attraction in the beginning only to discover that over time they are subtly — and not so subtly — mistreated by their partner. And actually ended up settling for less just to maintain a fraction of the excitement that was present in the beginning.

In my latest blog post, 10 Signs You’re Settling In Your Relationship, I list the casual ways that many settle for less in their relationships while telling themselves they aren’t.

Are you settling for less in love?

Read all about the 10 signs at dinarobison.com here.

 

Can You Spot a Player When You’re Looking For Love?

Would You Know a Player If He Was Playing You?

All the time I get asked, “But Dina, how can I know if he’s just a player?”

Did you know that there’s an entire coaching industry out there that teaches ordinary men how to play “the game?”

Years ago I met a man who was learning this game, and he told me all about it. In a nutshell, it’s based on the idea that women can quickly fall for a man if he creates chemistry with her.

And there are a few learnable tricks that men (to be fair, perhaps not only men) use to artificially create feelings of chemistry in women BEFORE she’s had a chance to get to know him.

In other words, she’s falling for him without even knowing whether or not he’s a good person or a good match for her long-term.

And players aren’t always Hollywood handsome or professional athlete hot. Sometimes they look like computer geeks, and that’s their “in.”

So learn not to fall for it and send the players on their merry way so you can be available for real love instead.

In my latest blog post 10 Surefire Ways To Spot Players, I list 10 traits of the player that you will be able to spot immediately (most of them anyway) and what you can do as a deliberate dater to not waste another moment with one again.

Find out how to spot the players right here.

Does the Law of Attraction Work To Attract Love or Not?

Law of attraction coaches get a bad rap.

I TOTALLY get it. The law of attraction is a philosophy and methodology that is metaphysical and can’t be proven scientifically. It’s not seen, heard, tasted, felt. (Or is it?)

It’s a bit like asking people, “Just trust me, it works.” That’s a tall order and I would never expect anyone to buy into something that doesn’t resonate with them.

It sounds like the law of attraction is supposed to work like magic and just immediately bring you the love, wealth, success, fame, bliss, or whatever else you desire.

But it’s not that at all. As a matter of fact, there’s nothing magical about it at all. It’s actually probably something you’ve already been doing successfully in many areas of your life.

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And I clear up exactly what it is and isn’t in my latest post at the Deliberately Attract Your Soulmate blog.

In this post I lay out:

  • What the law of attraction is.
  • How it relates to everyday life and our world.
  • Why experiencing ALL emotions (even the bad ones) are very helpful.
  • The one key to making the law of attraction work for you. (And it’s not magic.)
  • And what you must do now if you want to attract soulmate love to you.

Read The Law of Attraction Isn’t Magic For Love here.