Last week I heard a money mindset tip from a coach that went, “It’s easier to make lots of money than it is to make a little money.” At first it sounds backwards and whether you believe that or not is okay, but as soon as I heard that it resonated as completely true for me. Why? Because it’s exactly the same concept (after all everything is energy) that I coach my clients on about love.
Attracting and being in your ideal relationship is so much easier than being in default one.
This truth is why I’m so inspired to help women attract the love they always wanted because it’s so EASY and feels GREAT. No more banging your head against the wall wondering if he’s serious about you or if he’s going to decide to commit. No biting your lip in fear that if you express your feelings to him he will run off.
Actually, your soul mate feels the same way about you as you do about him and the whole process just flows and it can flow rather quickly if that’s what you desire.
The other night I was skimming through some dating advice articles from major magazines and online newspapers; I was horrified that what’s promoted as the popular, mainstream belief is that dating and relationships are a struggle and sacrifice. That a woman shouldn’t express how she’s feeling too soon even if she is physically intimate with her man (HUH?), that she shouldn’t complain (holding in her feelings will passively come out in complaints, btw), and that she should just focus on having fun (somewhat agree depending on what fun means).
Well, would that feel good to you in a relationship? Does being anything other than being your Self and expressing your feelings of love feel like a good relationship to you? Does not getting the love and commitment you desire sound like it would be fun after a while?
If you are so done with dating (like I was when I attracted my husband) and are ready to attract your soul mate then there is something you need to know:
Behaviors, games, tactics, and “rules” that have you being anything other than your Self will attract the wrong man to you. Period.
Authentic, honest expression of who you are as a woman and knowing what’s important to you in your life and in your relationship will attract the right man to you.
So this brings us to why soul mate love is so easy; because you get to totally be your self and be up front about what you’re looking for. What a relief! Anyone who doesn’t match that won’t be a time and energy drain. And when you deliberately attract your partner it will be because he wants the very same things you do and he’s just as ready as you are for love. You will know sooner that you are right for each other and should marriage be on your minds, that will happen sooner, too, as it did for myself and other couples I know.
So when you read any dating advice, including this, please check in with your self. Does it feel true and good to you?
“Learn to guide your thoughts in the direction of things that feel good, and discover the power that only comes from vibrational alignment with Source.” ~ Abraham–Hicks
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Lovingly & Truthfully Yours,
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