Would You Know a Player If He Was Playing You?
All the time I get asked, “But Dina, how can I know if he’s just a player?”
Did you know that there’s an entire coaching industry out there that teaches ordinary men how to play “the game?”
Years ago I met a man who was learning this game, and he told me all about it. In a nutshell, it’s based on the idea that women can quickly fall for a man if he creates chemistry with her.
And there are a few learnable tricks that men (to be fair, perhaps not only men) use to artificially create feelings of chemistry in women BEFORE she’s had a chance to get to know him.
In other words, she’s falling for him without even knowing whether or not he’s a good person or a good match for her long-term.
And players aren’t always Hollywood handsome or professional athlete hot. Sometimes they look like computer geeks, and that’s their “in.”
So learn not to fall for it and send the players on their merry way so you can be available for real love instead.
In my latest blog post 10 Surefire Ways To Spot Players, I list 10 traits of the player that you will be able to spot immediately (most of them anyway) and what you can do as a deliberate dater to not waste another moment with one again.