Tag Archives: relationships

Online Dating Without Going Crazy

Dating Online Is Still an Amazing Way To Meet People

That being said, it can drive you crazy if you aren’t deliberate about it.

Over 7 years ago I met my husband online about 6 weeks after I signed up on the dating site.

Was I just lucky? Maybe.

But I also was very deliberate by following a few simple tips and cut through the riff-raff to get straight to the one.

In my blog post, Dating Online To Find Love Without Losing Your Mind, I highlight the exact steps and my mindset when I met my husband online.

Read all about them here.

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How Do You Know If You’re Settling In Love?

“I Refuse To Settle In a Relationship.”

That’s a phrase I repeatedly hear from clients, women I know, and even myself once upon a time.

Of course, no one wants to settle in order to be in a relationship. But the more appropriate question to ask is: How do you know if you are settling?

What seems to happen is that when people think they aren’t settling in their relationship, they actually are.

Sure, they may have had fireworks, chemistry, and attraction in the beginning only to discover that over time they are subtly — and not so subtly — mistreated by their partner. And actually ended up settling for less just to maintain a fraction of the excitement that was present in the beginning.

In my latest blog post, 10 Signs You’re Settling In Your Relationship, I list the casual ways that many settle for less in their relationships while telling themselves they aren’t.

Are you settling for less in love?

Read all about the 10 signs at dinarobison.com here.

 

9 Ways TV and Movies Are Messing Up Your Love Life

Harmful Love and Relationship Myths Thanks To Entertainment

It’ s no secret that I believe the way entertainment portrays love and relationships is an enormous contributor to the limiting beliefs that make it challenging to find a soulmate.

Yes, I’m sure most people do consciously know they are watching fiction and that it isn’t “reality.” But what most don’t realize is that without a positive model of soulmate love growing up, what their mind absorbs becomes their reality of love.

And a compelling story combined with beautiful actors, a heart-stirring score, and stunning special effects has the power to profoundly affect our emotions and feelings about love. Additionally, with an ever-increasing trend towards violence and disturbing themes in entertainment, it’s more important than ever to be aware of these messages.

Every once in a while I bring this topic back to the forefront as I did in my latest blog post: Nine Harmful Love and Relationship Myths Courtesy of Popular Entertainment.

Check it out here to read the top myths the entertainment industry perpetuates that could be messing up your love life. Do you recognize any, or all, of them?

What’s She Got That I Don’t Have?

Confidence For Women

Mere minutes after I had just been wondering, “Wow, he is cute and really, really nice. Is he single?” his fiance walks up and he embraces and kisses her like he will never let her go.

He was the star of an off-off Broadway Shakespearean play – handsome, funny, intelligent, and gentlemanly. I was working admission for the play and beforehand we had started a friendly banter which prompted my fantasy of him being my boyfriend.

And then his fiance arrives with her family.

It was so obvious that he truly loved her and was thrilled about their upcoming wedding in two weeks, that I was quietly embarrassed about my earlier daydream. At the curtain call applause he even thanked her in front of the packed theater!

Was I jealous? Yes. Very much so.

But even better, I was curious. She didn’t seem extraordinary on the outside so I genuinely wanted to know her secret.

And as embarrassing as it is to admit it, at that time in my life that was only one of a handful of times I asked myself the question, “What does she have that I don’t have?”

In these cases the lady didn’t seem to be:

Extraordinarily attractive

Glamorous

Alluring or mysterious

Successful or rich

Bubbling with vivaciousness

or

Anything else that I believed men couldn’t resist.

And it took a few more years and a ton of inner work for me to figure out that this kind of woman, that a man wholeheartedly loves and commits to, is so full of self-love and self-respect that she is able to mirror that love back to her man and he is able to mirror it back to her.

She is a confident and whole woman so she does not require her man to “do” anything for her approval or love.

And it took another 3 years for me to stop chasing confidence on the outside and to start living it from the inside – and inspire the love from my husband-to-be that I witnessed that actor had for his fiance.

In the Confidence For Women: Inner Radiance For Living Your Purpose course there are 11 simple yet effective exercises designed to help you consciously and naturally improve your self-esteem, self-love, and confidence for anything you want to accomplish in your life – including attracting your soulmate.

And it’s on sale for only $9.99 (regularly $39.99) through the end of this weekend 3/11!

Preview the first two lectures for free right here – including The Truth About How the Media Diminishes Confidence In Women right here.

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Wouldn’t it be awesome to look back a year from now and be that woman you’ve been wondering, “What does she have that I don’t” about?

I hope to see you there, and have an amazing weekend!

Love,

Dina Robison

Can You Make a Certain Person Love You?

So you’ve got a crush, an infatuation with a particular man. Maybe you even had a relationship with him.

But, for whatever reason that only has to do with him, he doesn’t want to be with you. Can you make him change his mind?

The short answer…No. Sorry.

I wish I could tell you otherwise because that might be what you want to hear but I didn’t become a soulmate attraction coach to encourage you to contort yourself into a frenzy to get the attention of one man who probably will never love you and isn’t worthy of 1% of your love.

Did I just say that?

Yeah, I did. And I apologize if that stings.

Unfortunately, we can never control other people and what they do. But here’s what you can do…

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  1. You can use the sting of his unrequited love as inspiration for you to get very clear on what you do want in life now and find the man that does love you.

  2. You can meditate on what it is that you’re so attracted to in him. When I last had this happen in 2009 I asked myself, “What was it that I felt he gave me that I so desperately wanted?” The answer inspired me to make the big change in my life that ultimately led me to my soulmate.

  3. You can discover how you imagine you would feel in partnership with this man, why the idea of it is so appealing to you, but now focus on finding the man that really wants to you make you feel that way.

Having a broken or hurting heart can be a powerful jumping off point for going down a new path to the real soulmate relationship you are meant to be in.

This is why so many find their partner following a big heartbreak. The desire to find real love became so strong with a broken heart that the clarity for the love they wanted drew it in.

So if you are ready to attract your real, soulmate partner then please take advantage of my $9.99 blowout on both of my courses, Dating Deliberately To Attract Love and Deliberately Attract Your Soulmate through 2/14, Valentine’s Day.

Dating Deliberately To Attract Love prepares you to get out and date again with clarity, intention, and deliberate action steps to date in a new way and specifically attract a soulmate partner.

“The material is easily presented, straight and to the point. Really helps someone who wants to know how to apply clarity and direction to focusing their dating life know how to do it! To learn from past relationship mistakes and move on.” – Holli

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“I am loving your program! Even though I’ve done tons of hypnosis/mediation before this program and lots of internal work I am really loving your program/ visualizations – especially the future vision of seeing your partner.. It is really one of my favourite programs that I have done.” – Tarryn

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I hope to see you there…

Lots of Love,

Dina Robison

Deliberate Soulmate Attraction Coaching Session…On Me!

Wouldn’t it be nice if you could have a deliberate attraction coaching session with me, fully focused on you and no time spent telling you about my coaching packages, but have someone else pay for it?

 

Well, you can…yay!

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You see I would LOVE your thoughts about online course sites and taking online courses for personal development and self growth.

 

So anyone that completes my current survey by Friday 2/16 at 6pm PST will be entered to win 1 of 3 complimentary deliberate attraction coaching sessions with me ($125 value), plus one winner will also get a $25 Amazon gift card.

 

The survey is only 10 questions and should take an average of 3 minutes to complete. Your email will be entered and selected by random drawing (by a randomizer website) to win. The prizes are:

 

1 winner will get a $25 Amazon gift card plus a complimentary deliberate attraction session.

 

2 winners will get a complimentary deliberate attraction session.

 

A session will be treated just like you paid in full, totally focused on you so you get the coaching you need in that time. A recording of the session for your use will be included for you.

 

Entries must be received by 2/16 at 6pm PST. Winners will be notified on Monday 2/19.

 

So if you have a few minutes, please take the survey on online course sites here >>> https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/75P3GVC

 

Thank you so much and I look forward to your responses…

Love,

Dina Robison