Confidence For Women
Mere minutes after I had just been wondering, “Wow, he is cute and really, really nice. Is he single?” his fiance walks up and he embraces and kisses her like he will never let her go.
He was the star of an off-off Broadway Shakespearean play – handsome, funny, intelligent, and gentlemanly. I was working admission for the play and beforehand we had started a friendly banter which prompted my fantasy of him being my boyfriend.
And then his fiance arrives with her family.
It was so obvious that he truly loved her and was thrilled about their upcoming wedding in two weeks, that I was quietly embarrassed about my earlier daydream. At the curtain call applause he even thanked her in front of the packed theater!
Was I jealous? Yes. Very much so.
But even better, I was curious. She didn’t seem extraordinary on the outside so I genuinely wanted to know her secret.
And as embarrassing as it is to admit it, at that time in my life that was only one of a handful of times I asked myself the question, “What does she have that I don’t have?”
In these cases the lady didn’t seem to be:
Alluring or mysterious
Successful or rich
Bubbling with vivaciousness
Anything else that I believed men couldn’t resist.
And it took a few more years and a ton of inner work for me to figure out that this kind of woman, that a man wholeheartedly loves and commits to, is so full of self-love and self-respect that she is able to mirror that love back to her man and he is able to mirror it back to her.
She is a confident and whole woman so she does not require her man to “do” anything for her approval or love.
And it took another 3 years for me to stop chasing confidence on the outside and to start living it from the inside – and inspire the love from my husband-to-be that I witnessed that actor had for his fiance.
In the Confidence For Women: Inner Radiance For Living Your Purpose course there are 11 simple yet effective exercises designed to help you consciously and naturally improve your self-esteem, self-love, and confidence for anything you want to accomplish in your life – including attracting your soulmate.
And it’s on sale for only $9.99 (regularly $39.99) through the end of this weekend 3/11!
Oh, and if you get the course you have lifetime access to the material and the Q & A discussion board, plus a 30 day money-back guarantee if you don’t like it for any reason.
Wouldn’t it be awesome to look back a year from now and be that woman you’ve been wondering, “What does she have that I don’t” about?
I hope to see you there, and have an amazing weekend!