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The Epiphany That Flipped Me From Bad Boys To Good Men

Not only did I like the bad boys…

If he was emotionally unavailable and at least somewhat cute…I was attracted to him.

But why? I was baffled at how I could fall for one after the other.

Flash forward to late 2010 when I was going through a soulmate attraction course in a book…

At some point during an exercise, it dawned on me (much like an anvil falling on my head) that the part of me that lack self-worth thrived on the devoted, NEEDY, attention this type of man showered on me in the first few months.

You see…they needed me (or my car) more than I needed them.

And because I had a gaping hole in my own foundation, I found security in this co-dependence.

After that revelation I was able to:

1) Complete myself.
2) Let go of the anchor of security and be motivated by love instead.
3) Be repelled by these men while being attracted to GOOD MEN.

Would that have dawned on me with my own journal writing? Maybe.

But I got there a lot faster because I was going through a course in a book that prompted my subconscious to bring that forth.

And I address this exact epiphany in module 4 about Healing Wounds of my Deliberately Attract Your Soulmate course, and guide you through an exercise that will help you do the same.

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Deliberately Attract Your Soulmate

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Dating Deliberately To Attract Love

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Confidence For Women: Inner Radiance For Living Your Purpose

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May Special On Soulmate Attraction and Dating Courses

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Conquer These and Avoid the Narcissist For Good

Tweak Your Dating Habits To Avoid Falling For a Narcissist

Without a doubt, the single largest common factor amongst my clients and community members now ready to attract their soulmate is that they have experience dating a narcissist in the past. Narcissism in relationships is hardly new but, now with a name, so much awareness has been brought to light about how to spot one, how to get over one, and how to never date one again.

Learning to date deliberately will help you identify a narcissist early on and avoid becoming bonded with him, so you can stay open and be available for genuine love instead.

The following 4 tips will safeguard you against narcissists while you’re dating.

Please continue reading here…

The One Question That Will Help You Get Over a Narcissist For Good

Date Deliberately and Avoid the Narcissist For Good

There’s a name for that guy that seemingly has his act together, is so fun, so charismatic, and hot, but doesn’t reveal his unavailability until he’s left you heartbroken and confused. He’s a narcissist.

And it isn’t that he loves himself, it’s that he’s created an over-inflated image of himself to compensate for something broken in him – like wounding from his childhood.

So what does that mean for you in a relationship with him?

It means it’s all about HIM. His “love” for you is all about what you are doing for him in this moment. For example, you could be his distraction from reality, his avoidance of being alone, his intimate satisfaction, or his trophy to appear complete to the others in his life.

But it isn’t about love. As a matter of fact, as soon as he doesn’t need what you’re providing him any more he will disappear.

A narcissist has mastered the art of charming others and faking love by love bombing in the beginning before his true colors start showing. He relies on this act to get a woman because he doesn’t know how to love from his heart and provide lasting value, as it’s all about him.

Some of the most common benefits narcissists initially give women are:

Fun/Funny

Passionate

Alluring

Unpredictable

Exciting

Romantic

Needing Her

Attention

…And probably hundreds more.

So how can you be prepared when you’re dating to not fall for a narcissist again? How do you know if the qualities he’s presenting are real or just manifestations of his problem?

This is what I ask all of my clients that have a pattern of dating narcissists to do:

List all of the qualities that they loved about their exes.

Then honestly ask themselves, “If I didn’t need to have those qualities present to love someone, then what would I be attracted to instead?”

The answer to that question reveals your soulmate. What’s left over after the outward mask is dropped is who your soulmate partner really is. And what’s illuminated is your heart just open to pure love over external satisfaction.

This weekend I challenge you to sit down and quietly journal on those questions.

What was revealed to you? Were you surprised by anything? How will this change the way you date and get to know others?

Please feel free to hit reply and let me know your thoughts! And if you’d like additional help please take advantage of a free 30-minute deliberate attraction session with me or grabbing my courses for only $9.99 through Saturday 3/31! Details below…

  1. Schedule a free 30-minute deliberate attraction session with me here and we can discuss any blocks you feel you may have and how to bust through them. We can also explore how a one-on-one coaching relationship can help you.

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    Deliberately Attract Your Soulmate

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    future vision of seeing your partner.. It is really one of my favorite
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    Module 1: Getting To Know What Love Is

    Find out your true soul’s expression of love and believe that it’s not only possible but that you will never settle for less again. 4 lessons and 1 guided meditation.

    Module 2: Transmuting Energy Blocking Love

    Transforming energy from past romantic or family relationships into a powerful force that will draw love to you. 4 lessons.

    Module 3: Forgiving and Releasing Ties To the Past

    Free your heart from painful ties to past romantic or family relationships so you can trust and love again. 3 lesson and 2 guided meditations.

    Module 4: Evolving Agreements and Hidden Personalities

    Evolve any unconscious agreements or parts of you blocking love into energy that will help you get the love you want. 3 lessons and 1 guided meditation.

    Module 5: The Divine Feminine In You

    Discovering and merging with the most radiant and dynamic goddess within you. 3 lessons and 1 guided meditation.

    Module 6: Loving Yourself To Love Another

    Turn any negative self talk around into truly appreciating and loving your unique gifts, so your soul mate can, too. 4 lessons.

    Module 7: Knowing the Essence of Your Soul Mate Partnership

    Connecting with the energy and deep values of your soul mate partnership so you never settle for less-than again. 2 lessons and 1 guided meditation.

    Module 8: Recognizing Your Soul Mate In Person

    Discovering and becoming very clear about the qualities of your soul mate and your future life together to attract just the right person for you. 3 lessons and 1 guided meditation.

    Module 9: Manifesting Your Soul Mate With Inspired Action

    Creating a deliberate action plan with simple steps you can take now to meet your soul mate. 3 lessons.

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    Downloadable mp3s of 7 guided meditations, worksheets for each module, a bonus Q & A section with common questions asked about the course and dating, and ongoing online support from me personally!

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    Dating Deliberately To Attract the One

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    Module 1: Clarity and Focus To Magnetize Your Soul Mate

    Become crystal clear and focused on your soul mate and the partnership you want to attract now. Get a glimpse into your ideal future life together and begin to create the vision of the life you want.

    Module 2: Turning Limiting Beliefs and Fears Into Love Magnets

    Learn the key factor to making the law of attraction and affirmations work for you. Turn limiting beliefs into empowerment and tap into your inner confidence for dating success.

    Module 3: Dating Deliberately With Confidence and Joy

    Create a deliberate action plan for meeting your soul mate and to date with ease. Plus, an online dating crash course for cutting through the b.s. and meeting your soul mate without wasting time.

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    Confidence For Women: Inner Radiance For Living Your Purpose

    Naturally and effectively improve your personal and professional confidence and self-esteem with the simple, yet powerful, exercises in this course.

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    Your Vision of Confidence – Imagine being the woman you want to be! Clarifying and visualizing what being a confident woman ideally means to you and embodying the qualities of a woman you most admire.

    Creating Confident and Loving Self-Talk – Loving yourself! Improving self-esteem and self-worth by transmuting negative self-talk and replacing it with empowering beliefs about yourself your unique purpose in life to create confidence that begins on the inside.

    Living Confidently – Acting confidently and living your dreams today! Taking simple and powerful steps in your daily life that will improve your mindset and quality of life – and allow you to stop playing small and live with confidence.

    Whether you want to go after a dream, nail a job interview, or date with ease and joy to attract the relationship you desire…

    By the end of Confidence For Women you will have an action plan for pursuing your purpose and the confidence to do it!

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