Recently on my blog and in social media I’ve been seeing women post about the dilemma of really wanting to attract their soul mate, doing a lot of various manifesting work in that area, and then becoming very disappointed when their soul mate doesn’t appear in their life. Yes, I totally agree that it’s heartbreaking to really want something and not have it pan out the way I wanted it to.
There could be countless reasons as to why this might be which may include but are not limited to:
The time isn’t ideal right now.
Your inner vibration is not up to speed with the vibration of what you’re wanting to attract into your life.
You may be ready but your soul mate may not be.
You might have limiting beliefs still overriding your belief in receiving your desire.
You may not fully trust that it’s going to happen.
Unbeknownst to you – you might not be allowing it to come into your life.
Your desire for a mate might be coming from a covetous, lower vibration that may not be in your highest interest.
And other countless possibilities.
All of these applied to me at some point in my journey for love. Go inside and ask yourself – what is the reason my love hasn’t manifested in my physical life yet? It’s nice to acknowledge and understand the reasons but that isn’t the most important part, which is…
To then get on with your life. Remember the soul qualities and values I talked about in my last post on deliberate attraction? Live in that place now. Live the life that you want to share with your soul mate even though he isn’t here with you physically yet. That is trust – truly knowing and believing that you will have your desire before it is physically present in your life.
Those last few months right before I met my husband I clearly recall shifting into that zone of trust and allowing. I had no doubt in my mind that I would meet him very soon. I took actions, like joining an online dating site, but was relaxed about the result. Even if I didn’t meet him soon it was okay because I was enjoying my life anyway. The desire to meet him and knowing I would was still very much there but I didn’t need to meet him to be living the life I wanted. Does that make sense? Are you willing to make that shift, too?
So what can you do now in your life that will nurture your soul qualities? What can you do now that represents your highest values? What can you do now that feeds your personality and energy? What physical actions can you take that is in alignment with these qualities?
I hope you find this to be helpful and maybe a little fun, too. As Abraham-Hicks always gently reminds their readers, we are too serious and need to just have more fun on this journey!
As always I’d love to read to your thoughts and appreciate your comments.
- Why the Law of Attraction Doesn’t Work Sometimes for Love (or Anything Else) (dinarobisoncoaching.wordpress.com)
- You Can’t Find Your Soul Mate if You Show a Fake Soul (lmerlobooth.typepad.com)
- Don’t Let A Soul Mate Pass You By (tinablogsalot.wordpress.com)